Sarah Jane I have always been optimistic. It is just that we don't know when we will be hit with a sudden sharp pain. It is okay to be sad though until you no longer feel it but what's great is life still goes on
9 years ago
Hanna-Riikka Well yeah. I just try to think that that sharp pain you mentioned will be that day's misery, not today's. But true, life goes on no matter what and how we feel. ^^;
This guy that I am friends with likes me but I just want to be his friend I don't know what to do.... I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't want to be his girlfriend....
Blossom @Julia This is so true Ms.Julia!! I sometimes have a hard time being firm because I feel I am too nice. I try not to but I usually let people walk all over me because I am afraid of hurting peoples feelings. I know now that it would be worse for me to let him think we will be together (even though we won't) just because I didn't want to flat out say ''We are just friends''. Lie To Me is a great example of this.
11 years ago
Julia You know the test they did on mice where if you give intermittent rewards, the mice become addicted and freak out when the reward isn't done and literally go crazy and sink into depression. Intermittently being nice will hook a person like nothing else. Very hard to break that cycle. So just say no, every time, firmly.
now i watched news and the situation in most Arab countries don't reassure functional wars and personal conflicts in order to reach power explicitly selfish sometimes lead to the destruction of whole peoples when Arab leaders will understand that human life is more important than power?